Saturday, January 19, 2013

Tips for Talking to Women And Attract Them Like Crazy~strictly for men:)

Many men are never taught how to talk to women. Because of this many guys go through life without the ability to attract a woman. Here are 15 tips to help make sure you aren’t making mistakes with the women you’d like to attract:

1. You should talk about “emotional” topics like childhood memories, future ambitions, or her passions. These conversation topics will open up her emotional floodgates.

2. Women want a guy who is not afraid to lead her. While talking to a woman take control of the conversation. Never wait for her to dictate what you’ll be talking about.

3. Pay attention to the non verbal cues a woman is giving you. If you’re standing too close to her, accidentally spitting when you talk, or making her feel uncomfortable in any way… she will send you hints. Pay attention to them.

4. Remember this motto “Fun not Funny.” Women are attracted to men who allow them to have fun. Don’t concentrate on having the funniest jokes. Concentrate on showing them the most excitement and enjoyment.

5. Tease women. One of the easiest ways to take a conversation to a fun and flirty level is to begin to tease women. Think back to your time on the playground. In the world of dating… what worked on the playground is effective all over again.

6. Get intimate with her. Women are turned on by men who are not afraid to take a conversation to a personal, intimate level.

7. Use things like “cold reads” to turn women on. Women love to hear opinions about themselves. Tell her what you observe about her.

8. Avoid complimenting a woman too much. Women are turned off by men who come across as “needy.” If you are complimenting a woman too much she will think you’re trying to impress her. Which will have the opposite effect.

9. If you want to know how to talk to women in a way that doesn’t bore them… Avoid asking too many “interview” style questions.  Instead state your opinion about things
10. Remember: Statements over questions. Instead of saying “where did you grow up?” Say “You don’t look like you grew up around here.” This allows you to make observations about her and express your personality.

11. Don’t hide your identity. Don’t be afraid to talk about whatever you’re passionate about.

12. Never compliment her on her eyes, looks, or body.

13. Say something that lets her know that you view her in a “sexual” way. If you don’t, you run the risk of winding up in the “friend zone”.

14. Use conversation “games” to keep the mood fun and flirtatious. Games can be anything like “truth or dare” or to less extreme games like the “5 questions game”.

15. Don’t give away your hand so fast. Women like men who are a challenge. If you want to keep a woman’s interest she has to feel like she is slowly winning you over. If she thinks you’re too easy… she’ll lose interest.

The best way to think about how to talk to women is to think about what kind of fun, playful, and sexual conversation you would most enjoy. Talking to a woman doesn’t have to be difficult. You just need to be aware of what they are turned on by and what turns them off. Follow the list above and you’ll do just fine.

Sunday, January 13, 2013


Hello lovelies,its been like ages,i really miss you all know,life with its ups and downs sometimes,got a not very pleasant news about a friend from home,which got me a little bit down,but believe me,am fine and better must continue.
So,how are you guys doing? hope great.Just over the weekend,i was at a friend's birthday outing,and i was so confused of what and what  to wear,so i tought of checking out my current favourite actress and a fashionista ..Kerry Washington,she has been my inspiration of late,she is amazingly simple,cute and classy.So i saw her outfit in a recent event that caught my attention,a navy blue dress and a simple black pump shoe,so i taught of getting the look for my friends birthday,but i added a touch of red waist belt from NEWYORKER STORE for 15$,a red clutch for 25$ and my black pump for 50$ at ASOS.
catch ya all later,enjoy your week...xoxo

i love her look

Wednesday, January 2, 2013


Lets take a look at the 2012's top trends and decide which ones we will keep and which we'll toss in 2013!
As with each passing year,many trends stood out.Below are the list of top 5...

Peplums were a budding trend in 2011,but 2012 saw them fully bossom.Armed versertility and the ability to make every women look good,it was virtually inescapable.
whether on tops,skirts or dresses,it was the go-to look for many ladies.

lets keep this for a little while longer


I think KIM K did it all in different leather outfits last year.
While we are generally used to boots and jackets,last year we saw leather took form in tops,dresses and flared skirts.

Me likey...:)

Actually,i am not a fan of neon,but  i still love them on people,especially in blazer,looks cool though.

I love Solange Knowles 

Me no likey.....(my opinion),but still cool on people who love them,i just had to love it on Rihanna because she is cute herself and everything fits her.Tomboy look trended so much in 2012,guess still on.

Me as a person,i am so crazy about animal prints,more of leopard,have got almost all,shoe,bag,top,shirt,clutch,leggings and am still looking for more:D
They were other big hits in 2012! all in leopard,zebra and snakeskin.i love so so much

Animal print is a classic! am sure it wont stop trending.

Tuesday, January 1, 2013

In 2013,Keep Fit

1. Drink one glass of water every hour. It will make you feel full. 2. Drink ice cold water. Your body will burn calories just getting the water to a normal temperature to digest. Also it is great for your complexion. 3. Drink 3 cups of green tea daily. It will help boost your metabolism, plus its anti-oxidants make your skin look great. 4. Take vitamins daily. 5. Eat spicy foods. They raise your metabolism. 6. Take cold showers because your body will burn calories to heat you back up


Head Scarf for those artistic days. Things needed: Scarf & a Clip or Elastic Band to put your hair up. 1) Comb your hair back to a messy bun or any up-do you'd like 2) Take a large square scarf & fold one corner to the other forming a triangle 3) Fold the tip of the triangle down to about the middle & then fold over again (Do not fold all the way to the edge) 4) Put the scarf around your head with the ends in the front (Make sure the folded side is against your head so it's not showing) 5) Tie a loose knot & if you'd like tuck the ends behind/underneath the scarf.


WOW! WOW!! WOW!!!,cant believe its 2013,all praises to JEHOVA.Firstly,i appreciate you all my dear viewers,most especially those who have encouraged me one way or other,my hubby,who kept pushing me and telling me to move on,thank love,and to all those who have sent comments,you are really appreciated and loved,thanks a bunch,i pray that this year will be a fullfillled one for each of us,enjoy your months,i encourage we prepare,plan and exploit all we desire in this blessed year 2013.once more,HAPPY NEW YEAR ALL....xoxo
xmas and new year season look below as promised : )
i so much love this combo,i am a big fan of leopard