INSPIRATION FOR SOMEONE

Personally,am so touched and i hope we are as well inspired.Happy sunday all and have a nice week ahead

Val Special :)

Happy valentine to all my dear blog visitors,i hope you all are having fun at the moment,for me it was fun here,i had a great time today though i worked. Am sure you guys will be little confused about my hair,yes it is me,since its val,i really wanted to look different and i thought of what to do,i went on you tube and checked on what i can do with my dreadlock differnt from all the styles,i would have loved an updo,but my medium length dread didnt agree :D,after all the searches on what to do,i finally came up with hair extension,all this while i didnt know i could braid on my dread,oh my Gosh!!! i love the outcome,it came out sooo beautiful.noone will know i have dreads under my braid,i used light brown colour,loving it so much,i could make whatever style with it,updo and many more.
i hope you love my new look.....keep enjoying your day.....kisses and hugs
BAG~ZARA
SHOE~EBAY
PANT~ZARA
SHIRT~NEW LOOK
WATCH~CASIO
ACCESSORIES~ASOS

Valentine's Day Gift Ideas

Valentine’s Day is just around the corner, and the clock is ticking. What on earth are you going to get her? Get her the right gift, and she’ll know she’s the apple of your eye. Screw it up, and you’ll be spending your time together trying to prove that you’re not a total boob.

If you’re stumped, these are good ideas for you. This timeless list of bound-to-please gifts will have her swooning.

Chocolates

Chocolate is the standard V-Day gift, and it’s easy to see why. It’s rich, creamy and muy delicioso. Not to mention it’s an aphrodisiac. There’s a reason chocolate is the candy of love and Sour Patch Kids aren’t. But not all chocolates are created equal. Skip the drugstore variety and go for a high-end chocolate like Godiva, Leonidas or Teuscher. With cocoa content at 70%, these designer creations are much more decadent that your average chocolate. If that’s still a little too traditional for you, try chocolate body paint. Sensuous makes three different yummy flavors, including mint-chocolate, white-chocolate macadamia and chocolate raspberry.
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Fragrance

Perfume can be super-tricky, as every woman has a different preference when it comes to smell. Regardless, if you snag her something you think smells delicious, then she’ll likely enjoy it as well. Try Curve Appeal by Elizabeth Arden. It’s is a heady, sexy mix of mandarin, violet, apple, nectarine, jasmine, iris, amber, sandalwood and vanilla. You’ll want to smell her all night.
Buy it here.

Fancy Sheets

High-thread-count sheets are considered a luxury, not a necessity, which is exactly why they make the most perfect Valentine’s Day gift. Every woman wants to be pampered. They might seem a bit fancy, but once the two of you crawl underneath the covers, you’ll realize why they’re worth every penny. Plus, this is the gift that gives back; with sheets like these, she’ll never want to get out of bed. Look for Egyptian cotton in at least an 800 thread count. .

Lingerie

Speaking of gifts that give back, lingerie is another one that benefits you as much as it does her. Since you probably have no idea how bras are sized, your best bet is to sneak a peek at one of hers when she’s not looking. The tag is usually located on the back strap. If you would rather not worry about her cup size, you can get her a teddy or slip, since those come in much-easier-to-gauge sizes like small, medium and large.

 Flowers

Flowers are a natural choice for your lady love on Valentine’s Day, and a pretty safe bet when all else fails. Unlike other gifts, flowers are appropriate, whether you’ve been dating her for one day or one year. And there are no calories involved. Stick to the classics like roses, or, if she’s not a traditionalist, go for something exotic like lilies or orchids.   

At-Home Spa Goodies

Put together a spa experience by getting her everything she needs to recreate a spa at home. Engage her sense of romance with scented Diptyque candles. Swing by Bath & Body Works and throw in a loofah, body lotion and bubble bath. Arrange it in a basket and, voila! You have a home spa kit. The cubes foam into a froth of soapy bubbles while releasing a citrus-y sweet scent.

Sexy Body Products

Set the mood for love with sexy products that pamper her body and arouse her. Kama Sutra is known for the sheer variety of kits and products that serve as the ultimate in foreplay. Gift sets like the Weekender Kit and Strawberries & Champagne Treasure Trove will get her treasure trove hot and bothered. Or try Lust Dust Body Powder. This delicious lickable powder will make it that much more easy to lick her hot bod.

A massage

The perfect end to a romantic evening? A sexy rubdown. The Rub Me Massage Bar melts easily into the skin, creating a smooth, creamy base for massage. If you find oils to be too messy, this is perfect. If your massage skills aren’t up to par, give her a real spa massage. The atmosphere will allow her to truly relax, while a professional’s touch will help ease her tension-filled muscles.

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Tips for Talking to Women And Attract Them Like Crazy~strictly for men:)

Many men are never taught how to talk to women. Because of this many guys go through life without the ability to attract a woman. Here are 15 tips to help make sure you aren’t making mistakes with the women you’d like to attract:

1. You should talk about “emotional” topics like childhood memories, future ambitions, or her passions. These conversation topics will open up her emotional floodgates.

2. Women want a guy who is not afraid to lead her. While talking to a woman take control of the conversation. Never wait for her to dictate what you’ll be talking about.

3. Pay attention to the non verbal cues a woman is giving you. If you’re standing too close to her, accidentally spitting when you talk, or making her feel uncomfortable in any way… she will send you hints. Pay attention to them.

4. Remember this motto “Fun not Funny.” Women are attracted to men who allow them to have fun. Don’t concentrate on having the funniest jokes. Concentrate on showing them the most excitement and enjoyment.

5. Tease women. One of the easiest ways to take a conversation to a fun and flirty level is to begin to tease women. Think back to your time on the playground. In the world of dating… what worked on the playground is effective all over again.

6. Get intimate with her. Women are turned on by men who are not afraid to take a conversation to a personal, intimate level.

7. Use things like “cold reads” to turn women on. Women love to hear opinions about themselves. Tell her what you observe about her.

8. Avoid complimenting a woman too much. Women are turned off by men who come across as “needy.” If you are complimenting a woman too much she will think you’re trying to impress her. Which will have the opposite effect.

9. If you want to know how to talk to women in a way that doesn’t bore them… Avoid asking too many “interview” style questions.  Instead state your opinion about things

  

10. Remember: Statements over questions. Instead of saying “where did you grow up?” Say “You don’t look like you grew up around here.” This allows you to make observations about her and express your personality.

11. Don’t hide your identity. Don’t be afraid to talk about whatever you’re passionate about.

12. Never compliment her on her eyes, looks, or body.

13. Say something that lets her know that you view her in a “sexual” way. If you don’t, you run the risk of winding up in the “friend zone”.

14. Use conversation “games” to keep the mood fun and flirtatious. Games can be anything like “truth or dare” or to less extreme games like the “5 questions game”.

15. Don’t give away your hand so fast. Women like men who are a challenge. If you want to keep a woman’s interest she has to feel like she is slowly winning you over. If she thinks you’re too easy… she’ll lose interest.

The best way to think about how to talk to women is to think about what kind of fun, playful, and sexual conversation you would most enjoy. Talking to a woman doesn’t have to be difficult. You just need to be aware of what they are turned on by and what turns them off. Follow the list above and you’ll do just fine.

OOTD~burgundy&khaki

BLUE BLACK KERRY WASHINGTON INSPIRED

Hello lovelies,its been like ages,i really miss blogging..as you all know,life with its ups and downs sometimes,got a not very pleasant news about a friend from home,which got me a little bit down,but believe me,am fine and better now.life must continue.
So,how are you guys doing? hope great.Just over the weekend,i was at a friend's birthday outing,and i was so confused of what and what  to wear,so i tought of checking out my current favourite actress and a fashionista ..Kerry Washington,she has been my inspiration of late,she is amazingly simple,cute and classy.So i saw her outfit in a recent event that caught my attention,a navy blue dress and a simple black pump shoe,so i taught of getting the look for my friends birthday,but i added a touch of red waist belt from NEWYORKER STORE for 15$,a red clutch for 25$ and my black pump for 50$ at ASOS.
catch ya all later,enjoy your week...xoxo

i love her look