Face of the week

I love coral,one of my best colour.
Isnt she cool? sure she is....;)

Quote of the day

Being strong and smiling is sometimes the only option you have,
unless you want to let the world know how damned you are.

Love is Life

Show someone true love this week and you will be happy you did.

Fall colours

Am definately going to try some of those,will you?

STYLING tips

who knows,you could learn something  new today

Future of fashion

heheheh!!!!!
Jeans sandal boots..you love?

Quote of the day

Three things in life than can destroy a man/woman:
ALCOHOL,PRIDE,AND ANGER
Three things in life that are never certain:
DREAMS,SUCCESS,AND FORTUNE
Three things in life that may never be lost:
PEACE,HOPE AND HONESTY
Three things in life that,once gone,never come back:
TIME,WORDS AND OPPORTUNITY

You all have a blissful thursday....later

Married or not you should read this

“When I got home that night as my wife served dinner, I held her hand and said, I’ve got something to tell you. She sat down and ate quietly. Again I observed the hurt in her eyes.

Suddenly I didn’t know how to open my mouth. But I had to let her know what I was thinking. I want a divorce. I raised the topic calmly. She didn’t seem to be annoyed by my words, instead she asked me softly, why?

I avoided her question. This made her angry. She threw away the chopsticks and shouted at me, you are not a man! That night, we didn’t talk to each other. She was weeping. I knew she wanted to find out what had happened to our marriage. But I could hardly give her a satisfactory answer; she had lost my heart to Jane. I didn’t love her anymore. I just pitied her!

With a deep sense of guilt, I drafted a divorce agreement which stated that she could own our house, our car, and 30% stake of my company. She glanced at it and then tore it into pieces. The woman who had spent ten years of her life with me had become a stranger. I felt sorry for her wasted time, resources and energy but I could not take back what I had said for I loved Jane so dearly. Finally she cried loudly in front of me, which was what I had expected to see. To me her cry was actually a kind of release. The idea of divorce which had obsessed me for several weeks seemed to be firmer and clearer now.

The next day, I came back home very late and found her writing something at the table. I didn’t have supper but went straight to sleep and fell asleep very fast because I was tired after an eventful day with Jane. When I woke up, she was still there at the table writing. I just did not care so I turned over and was asleep again.

In the morning she presented her divorce conditions: she didn’t want anything from me, but needed a month’s notice before the divorce. She requested that in that one month we both struggle to live as normal a life as possible. Her reasons were simple: our son had his exams in a month’s time and she didn’t want to disrupt him with our broken marriage.

This was agreeable to me. But she had something more, she asked me to recall how I had carried her into out bridal room on our wedding day. She requested that every day for the month’s duration I carry her out of our bedroom to the front door ever morning. I thought she was going crazy. Just to make our last days together bearable I accepted her odd request.

I told Jane about my wife’s divorce conditions. . She laughed loudly and thought it was absurd. No matter what tricks she applies, she has to face the divorce, she said scornfully.

My wife and I hadn’t had any body contact since my divorce intention was explicitly expressed. So when I carried her out on the first day, we both appeared clumsy. Our son clapped behind us, daddy is holding mommy in his arms. His words brought me a sense of pain. From the bedroom to the sitting room, then to the door, I walked over ten meters with her in my arms. She closed her eyes and said softly; don’t tell our son about the divorce. I nodded, feeling somewhat upset. I put her down outside the door. She went to wait for the bus to work. I drove alone to the office.

On the second day, both of us acted much more easily. She leaned on my chest. I could smell the fragrance of her blouse. I realized that I hadn’t looked at this woman carefully for a long time. I realized she was not young any more. There were fine wrinkles on her face, her hair was graying! Our marriage had taken its toll on her. For a minute I wondered what I had done to her.

On the fourth day, when I lifted her up, I felt a sense of intimacy returning. This was the woman who had given ten years of her life to me. On the fifth and sixth day, I realized that our sense of intimacy was growing again. I didn’t tell Jane about this. It became easier to carry her as the month slipped by. Perhaps the everyday workout made me stronger.

She was choosing what to wear one morning. She tried on quite a few dresses but could not find a suitable one. Then she sighed, all my dresses have grown bigger. I suddenly realized that she had grown so thin, that was the reason why I could carry her more easily.

Suddenly it hit me… she had buried so much pain and bitterness in her heart. Subconsciously I reached out and touched her head.

Our son came in at the moment and said, Dad, it’s time to carry mom out. To him, seeing his father carrying his mother out had become an essential part of his life. My wife gestured to our son to come closer and hugged him tightly. I turned my face away because I was afraid I might change my mind at this last minute. I then held her in my arms, walking from the bedroom, through the sitting room, to the hallway. Her hand surrounded my neck softly and naturally. I held her body tightly; it was just like our wedding day.

But her much lighter weight made me sad. On the last day, when I held her in my arms I could hardly move a step. Our son had gone to school. I held her tightly and said, I hadn’t noticed that our life lacked intimacy. I drove to office…. jumped out of the car swiftly without locking the door. I was afraid any delay would make me change my mind…I walked upstairs. Jane opened the door and I said to her, Sorry, Jane, I do not want the divorce anymore.

She looked at me, astonished, and then touched my forehead. Do you have a fever? She said. I moved her hand off my head. Sorry, Jane, I said, I won’t divorce. My marriage life was boring probably because she and I didn’t value the details of our lives, not because we didn’t love each other anymore. Now I realize that since I carried her into my home on our wedding day I am supposed to hold her until death do us apart. Jane seemed to suddenly wake up. She gave me a loud slap and then slammed the door and burst into tears. I walked downstairs and drove away. At the floral shop on the way, I ordered a bouquet of flowers for my wife. The salesgirl asked me what to write on the card. I smiled and wrote, I’ll carry you out every morning until death do us apart.

That evening I arrived home, flowers in my hands, a smile on my face, I run up stairs, only to find my wife in the bed dead. My wife had been fighting CANCER for months and I was so busy with Jane to even notice. She knew that she would die soon and she wanted to save me from the whatever negative reaction from our son, in case we push through with the divorce.— At least, in the eyes of our son— I’m a loving husband….

The small details of your lives are what really matter in a relationship. It is not the mansion, the car, property, the money in the bank. These create an environment conducive for happiness but cannot give happiness in themselves.

So find time to be your spouse’s friend and do those little things for each other that build intimacy. Do have a real happy marriage!

If you dont share this nothing will happen to you
If you do, you just might save a marriage. Many of life’s failures are people who did not realize how close they were to success when they gave up. ♥

Quote of the day

You think you're not pretty,
someone is wishing to be as
pretty as you.
Have a nice day peeps:*

Do you know famous people phobia....?

We present to our readers a list of the most famous people of our time who suffer (or have suffered) a phobia. It's amazing how diverse the fears and concerns of different people: someone afraid of spiders, some - height, and there are those who are very afraid of viruses. In general, everyone has their own cockroaches in my head. By the way, no one is afraid of cockroaches?
So here they are, our celebrities:

1. Johnny Depp. This talented actor is afraid of clowns and all colored people. In his own words "It always looks as if the other side did not have a mask, and if it is - it's devil's face."

2. Sigismund Freud. This well-known author of many scientific papers on psychoanalysis itself phobias, not one, but several. But the most terrible agony for Freud was the journey by rail, he was afraid of trains.

3. Howard Hughes at the end of his life most of the time naked in a dark room. He considered this zone completely free of viruses and harmful microorganisms. Actually, this is not so much a phobia as a significant deviation from the norm.

4. Marilyn Monroe. This well-known actress and singer suffered a great deal from agoraphobia that quite strange for a man of her profession. People suffering from agoraphobia fear crowded public places.

5. Billy Bob Thornton is afraid of antiques. He always seems to be that these things can kill the new owners, or even people who just decided a couple of times to use them.

6. Alfred Hitchcock hated eggs. However, his assistant said that "Hitchcock hates eggs, he hates cigarettes, he hates you yourself."

7. Andre Agassi is afraid of spiders. Actually, it's pretty safe to sporstmen - but hates spiders soul. Says he does not help himself.

9. And here at Jon Bon Jovi's another problem, the standard for most men: musician afraid bald. Representative variety recalls with horror the 80's, his crazy hair and the funds that were used to achieve the desired position of hair.

10. Penelope Cruz for a long time to quit smoking - but in some movies she always have to do it. The actress said that is afraid to start smoking again. Although, according to the latest movies, Cruz or start smoking, or simply non-nicotine smoking something.

Quote Of The Day

THEY WHO NEVER FAIL WILL NEVER UNDERSTAND HOW GREAT THE ADVENTURE OF LIFE IS.                                                                                                                       -Wilson Kanadi

How much do you love your mum

Mother...Someone who brings love and comfort to her children. I love my mother, she is the best gift ever and I wouldn't trade her for anything. :)

Obama second term:What it means for Africa

Some people on this continent expected more from the son of man who grew up herding goats in a village in western Kenya.

President Barack Obama made only one, cursory trip to sub-Saharan Africa during his first term, and at the time made it fairly clear that he would not be smothering the continent with attention.

"Africa's future is up to Africans," he said in Ghana, in a speech that quietly acknowledged the limitations of American influence in a region that now trades more with China than the US.

So how much will change in Mr Obama's second term? That question was, perhaps understandably, barely mentioned in an election campaign that focused on pressing domestic issues and the Arab uprisings.

In his victory speech, Mr Obama again made only passing reference to "a decade of war" and to "people in distant nations… risking their lives right now just for a chance to argue about the issues that matter, the chance to cast their ballots like we did today".

Behind the scenes US diplomacy will no doubt continue to be furiously in demand.What do you guys think?

MUSTS:Top Fall Fashion Trends

Quote Of The Day

Never let the hand you hold,hold you down

President Obama is Re-elected...

America's first black U.S. president has won re-election. President Obama won Ohio, securing him re-election as president of the United States with 303 electoral votes (thirty three more than he needed) to Romney's 206. He defeated Romney in key states. This is the day that the Lord has made! I am soooooo happy! God bless Americans for re-electing such a great man!

Photos of some of The New Kardashian Kollection Items

I think they are kul...loving them

The complete 'Kardashian Kollection' for Dorothy Perkins revealed

the Kardashian sisters have joined forces with UK high street staple Dorothy Perkins, just in time for the Christmas party season, and FEMAIL has the exclusive first look at every spangled, curve-kissing, leopard print piece of the girls' first British fashion collection.

The sisters have injected their va-va-voom style in to over 100 pieces for the store including sequined clutch bags, blinging tops and - of course - killer party dresses.

Kourtney’s bohemian chic can be emulated with floaty drape sleeve blouses and Kim’s red carpet glamour arrives in ‘look at me’ dresses while Khloé’s edgier dressing sees playful prints and a mix of textures.

GOOD DAY

Good morning/day peeps,so sorry posting late,i had to rush out to school,hope you enjoying the day.

Genesis of my Dread

It started feb'11....it was like its not gonna make it till now,but as it is am loving my babes:)every passing day

United we stand

First Day Blogging

hehehe....its so good to be here,my first day blogging,oh..my feet are sweating :D i hope for the best and promise to give my best...enjoy your week